Hutang oh piutang!

Keengganan seseorang untuk membayar hutang walaupun mampu, akan menghalangi mereka daripada masuk syurga apabila mati kelak. Roh orang seperti ini akan tergantung antara bumi dang langit (Tan Sri Abdul Kadir Talib, bekas Mufti Wilayah Persekutuan). Allah menjanjikan balasan syurga kepada hambanya yang bertaqwa dengan ikhlas serta membayar hutang piutangnya.

Di dalam Al-Quran, Alla memperingati supaya menjauhkan diri dari berhutang kerana jiwanya akan terganggu apabila tidak mampu membayarnya serta menjadi mata petaka di akhirat. Elakkan daripada berhutang sekiranya mahu mencari kebahagiaan di dunia dan akhirat. Hutang tidak kira daripada siapa sama ada keluarga, bank, Majlis Amanah Rakyat (MARA), Pinjaman Tabung Pendidikan Tinggi Nasional (PTPTN) dan sebagainya kerana jika tidak dijelaskan hukumnya berdosa.

Jika seseorang itu mempunyai hutang keliling pinggang, hidupnya tidak akan tenang serta hilang tumpuan untuk ibadat kepada Allah. Tidak dinafikan kehidupan hari ini terutama untuk membeli rumah dan kereta perlu membuat pinjaman, memandangkan ianya merupakan keperluan asas. Sebaik-baiknya setiap pinjaman perlu dijelaskan segera kerana dikhuatiri apabila seorang peminjam meninggal dunia, akan menimbulkan masalah pada pewaris untuk melangsaikan hutang tersebut.

Pengetua DarulQuran ‘Ittifaqiyah, Ustaz Mohd Zahid Mahmood berkata orang yang berhutang perlu mengamalkan doa supaya dapat membayar hutangnya. Doa perlu diamalkan setiap kali selepas solat. Maksud doa tersebut : “Ya Allah, ak berlindung denganMu daripada ditimpa kesusahan, kedukaan dan kelemahan, kemalasan, kedekut, perasaan takut dan desakan hutang dan paksaan orang. Ya Allah, cukupkanlah aku dengan segala perkara yang telah Engkau halalkan daripada segala perkara yang telah Engkau haramkan. Kayakanlah aku dengan kelebihan Engkau daripada meminta kepada orang lain.”

Soal hutang jangan dipandang ringan kerana Allah tidak akan mengampunkan dosa orang yang tidak melunaskan hutang seperti sabda Nabi Muhammad saw yang bermaksud: Diampunkan semua dosa bagi orang mati yang terkorban syahid kecuali jika ia mempunyai hutang (kepada manusia).

Women : Dating younger man! Pro? Cons?

U are 32 years old  and u dating a man 10 years junior than u.. Or u are 45 years old and u dating a man 20 years junior than u....WHAT ARE THE OUTCOME OF THAT SITUATION??short term and long term.... 

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Banyak dh yang ME tengok wanita dating or married younger man. Itu jodoh dan ketentuan untuk dia. Siapa kita  untuk menidakkannya. Tapi sedarkah, dating or kahwin dengan lelaki lebih muda ni ada baik buruknya. Kalau setakat muda 2 atau 3 tahun insyALLAH tidaklah complicated hubungan tersebut. Ini kes yang pasangan muda 10, 15, 20, 25 tahun lebih muda dari wanita tersebut. ME ada terbaca dari 1 sumber ini. If sumber ini tidak benar dan hanya pembohongan semata-mata, maka bohong jugak la ME pada pembaca sekalian.

Yang BAIKnya :

1. Jane Ganahl, former singles columnist untuk San Francisco Chronicle ada buat kajian wanita yang dating younger man akan buat dia jadi muda juga. Menurut Ganahl lg; “The younger person tends to be in awe of you because you have more life experience and a lot of the things that maturity brings, like power and money,”  “And it’s fun to share those things, to not only be a lover but a mentor."

2. Roberta, an over-50 marketing director dari Long Island ada cerita pengalaman dia dating dengan lelaki umur 27 tahun. Masa tu dia berumur 44 tahun. Menurut kakak Roberta ni, dating dengan lelaki muda ni bukan sahaja seronok dari segi berkongsi kasih sayang tapi juga boleh share pengalaman. She also found herself falling into a mentor role.

Yang BURUKnya :

Jelas lagi ketaranya, orang muda KEBANYAKANnya lack of life experience. Of course, mcm org dulu-dulu cakap "Aku lebih dulu makan garam dari kau."......

1. Sharmen, a 37-year-old motivational speaker and author from Irvine, CA, ended her relationship with a 24-year-old guy a few months ago because of his immaturity issues. “He once called me at 3:30 in the morning wanting me to get out of bed, go to his place, and bring him a pizza,” she says. “The things young guys try to get away with are insane.” I would do the same thing if i'm in Sharmen's shoes!!

2. Roberta, too, says she finally ended things with “Frank” after growing tired of constantly being the wise grown-up. “As time went on, I felt like I was his teacher, then his aunt, and finally, his mother, which was creepy,” she says. “The passion faded.”This is ver scare me!!

3. And then there’s that whole cougar thing. Julie, a 52-year-old income tax professional from Overland Park, KS, who’s been dating a 32-year-old guy for the past two years, says she’d never even heard the term before people started using it to refer to her. “I find it offensive because a cougar is a predator in the animal world, and I am not now nor have I ever been a predator of younger men,” she says. “I prefer men my own age, but for some reason, it was love at first sight for both of us.” People call u cougar!!OWH!!

4.  And let’s not forget nature’s cruelty. “At the end of the day, the 30-year-old I was dating really wanted to get married and have kids, and I wasn’t interested in that,” says Ganahl, “I already had a daughter in college. So that’s another downside. You can’t really ‘work on’ the fact that you’re older.”Ahah, nice one!

SIMPULANnya

 
Dating someone older has its challenges, too. Men raised in a more traditional era can be controlling and/or unwilling to accept independent behavior. And society makes certain assumptions about the older man/younger woman match, too. “I was treated as if I was a young, gold-digging trophy wife and he was the successful, rich older man, but I was the breadwinner,” says Sharmen, who was married for three years to a man 28 years her senior. “Plus, his mother was very chilly and called me the wrong name for the majority of our marriage. Every significant age gap has its issues.”

But despite the issues, there are couples that make it, says Sarah, a 36-year-old reporter from Seattle who’s been married to a man 10 years her junior for the last four years. “When we got together, friends told me that it was very unlikely it was going to work out,” she says. “They said younger men don’t want to commit and that we’re at different places in our lives. But he’s committed to me and I’m committed to him and I think we’re absolutely a good match. We’re not divorced yet!”  

burst into tears again...(-__-")

u all ad selak-selak tak surat khabar New Straits Times lately? in precise, NST 9 march 2012 (friday). secara kebetulan Me sempat la selak-selak kejap, bila turn page 8 ternampak a few gambar movies. bila baca-baca, rupanya movie tu adalah antara movie yang end woth sad ending. Ayatnya if Me dapat tulis kt sini, macam ni la bunyinya "Moviegoers love happy endinngs. Even the world-end fiction 2012 ends on a happy and hopeful note. But today, we bring readers 10 of the saddest movie endings of all time". Dengan sepantas kilat Me capai tetikus komputer dan cari movie ni di internet dengan niat untuk muat turun. Movie pertama yang me download ialah Beaches (1988) yang dibintangi oleh dua bintang utama,Bette Midler & Barbara Hershey (xtau pula Bette Midler ni pelakon, sebelum ni dengar lagu dia yang  mmg best je. Rupa dia pun Me xpenah tau macam mana). 

Honestly, Bette Midler memang pelakon yang hebat. Lakonan dia sangat menjadi dan look real. Sampai Me pun tertatik masuk dalam movie dia. Kira dapat menjiwai la. Phewwww....Hey, Im telling u the truth OK! Me sangat menjiwai movie ni. Sampai nak terkeluar air mata dara ni...Lepas tengok movie ni, if dengar je lagu favorite Me yang dinyanyikan oleh Bette Midler (The Wind Beneath My Wing), Me terus terbayang-bayangkan scene dalam movie ni. Lagi satu lagu ialah The Glory of Love by Bette Midler jg. 

Actually movie ni bukanlah berkisarkan ceritan cinta betwen man and woman. Tetapi love between two lifelong friends, CC and Hillary of course played by Bette Midler and Barbara Hershey. Perkenalan yang xdisangka. Hanya sehari je berjumpa then berkawan dalan jarak jauh dengan switching letter. Sampai la dh bekerjaya baru dorang jumpa semula. Tapi biasa la kan. Dalam dunia ni xde siapa yang perfect. Dorang pun ad jugak bergaduh. Macam Me sendiri pun bukan xpenah gaduh, masam2 muka and ada terkecik hati dengan member2 ME. Ada je sume tu..Tapi benda tu kejap je. Sampai bila la kita boleh nk masam-masam muka kita dengan kawan yang kita dh kenal hati budi, perangai masing-masingkan. At the end of the day, rasa sayang tu tetap ada jugak. Cuma mungkin ego terlebih agaknya sampai xnak tunjuk rasa sayang tu. That's fine la as long as xmasam-masam muka or gaduh (boleh ke macam tu?hurm..). (^_^) BTW, Me suggest kan la u all if ada masa lapang tgk la cerita ni.

Dalam-dalam dok syok tgk movie ni Me sempat jgk terfikir, muka Bette Midler ni mcm penah tgk je dalam satu movie yang Me penah tgk masa final semester dekat Segamat. Tajuk movie tu Hocus Pocus year 1993 if Me xsilap la. Cite tu pun best jgk. Yang bestnya tang kelakar la. Jalan cerita xbpe nk best. Mcm yang Me bgtau sebelum ni lakonan Bette Midler mmg menjadi dan lagu dlm cerita Beaches and Hocus Pocus ni mmg best! Next mission Me nak download movie lakonan Bette Midler (mana yang larat la). I'cant help myself from keep on listening these two song: 

1. The Glory of Love  

 "This is a song I've been singing for a long time.
It's like an old friend.
But, you know, I think it,
it's only recently that I discovered what it's really about."

You've got to give a little, take a little,
and let your poor heart break a little.
That's the story of, that's the glory of love.

You've got to laugh a little, cry a little,
until the clouds roll by a little.
That's the story of, that's the glory of love.

As long as there's the two of us,
we've got the world and all it's charms.
And when the world is through with us,
we've got each other's arms.

You've got to win a little, lose a little,
yes, and always have the blues a little.
That's the story of, that's the glory of love.
That's the story of, that's the glory of love.

 

 

      2.   The Wind Beneath My Wing

Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh.
It must have been cold there in my shadow,
to never have sunlight on your face.
You were content to let me shine, that's your way.
You always walked a step behind.

So I was the one with all the glory,
while you were the one with all the strength.
A beautiful face without a name for so long.
A beautiful smile to hide the pain.

Did you ever know that you're my hero,
and everything I would like to be?
I can fly higher than an eagle,
'cause you are the wind beneath my wings.

It might have appeared to go unnoticed,
but I've got it all here in my heart.
I want you to know I know the truth, of course I know it.
I would be nothing without you.

Did you ever know that you're my hero?
You're everything I wish I could be.
I could fly higher than an eagle,
'cause you are the wind beneath my wings.

Did I ever tell you you're my hero?
You're everything, everything I wish I could be.
Oh, and I, I could fly higher than an eagle,
'cause you are the wind beneath my wings,
'cause you are the wind beneath my wings.

Oh, the wind beneath my wings.
You, you, you, you are the wind beneath my wings.
Fly, fly, fly away. You let me fly so high.
Oh, you, you, you, the wind beneath my wings.
Oh, you, you, you, the wind beneath my wings.

Fly, fly, fly high against the sky,
so high I almost touch the sky.
Thank you, thank you,
thank God for you, the wind beneath my wings.

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From kitchen to the air (Part 1)

Last 2 weekends I'm in the mood of cooking.....instead of sleeping, playing computer games & watching movies, my new activity during weekend is cooking...i'm not professional cooker, but I do learn from my colleague, videos, recipes, Internet, etc. But I'd to pick up a simple recipes, so that easier for  me to looking the ingredients and doesn't take to long to completely make the dishes. 

My first pilot project is chocolate cupcakes. But it doesn't turn to be like what it should be. (*_*) . Everything turn into wasted. My second pilot project is chocolate cake.  This time I can give 1 over 5 stars...still not achieve the expectation.

Below is my other pilot project (sort in sequence) :-

Almond & chocolate chip cookies

Process of making mushroom soup (forgot to snap the mushroom soup =D)

Popiah sayur

Semur daging

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Name : Heartening, comforting or uninspiring

Instead of give an example from the name of  the road/village in Malaysia which is we are already know, here I give an example outside Malaysia. Wondering what is the stories behind these names.. (*_*)

Heartening & comforting

Pleasantville, New York       

  

Uninspiring

Bland, Missouri

Flat, Alaska

Ordinary, Virginia

Dowdy, Arizona

Pitts, Georgia

Mount Misery, New Jersey           

Dull, Ohio                                             

Plain, Wisconsin

Mousie, Kentucky

Low Point, Arizona

Hell, Michigan

Swastika, New York

If you found other heartening/ comforting and uninspiring names of road/ country/ etc. do post on the comment box below....sharing is interesting.